Σάββατο 27 Μαρτίου 2010

The Immigrant Case


Greece has had a homogenous population until the last couple decades. The first wave of immigration 20 years ago brought thousands of Albanians, when communism collapsed in the neigboring country, and the last decade has seen an influx of immigrants from Africa and the East - they\'re mostly people who see Greece as the threshold to the EU and a better life. These changes have caused insecurity to some and a deep sense of xenophobia to other Greeks.

The question is, what are Greeks so afraid of? Especially when some of us have worked (and still do so) abroad and even more have at least one relative that was an immigrant to other countries.

Why immigrants intimidate Greeks:

Greeks are suckers for conspiracies. And most of these conspiracy theories involve carving away a piece of Greece by one or more of our neighboring countries. So when it comes to the following nationalities, Greeks can be very prejudiced for the following reasons:

  1. Albanians teach the idea of a \"Great Albania\" in their public schools, which involves extending the country\'s borders all the way down to Preveza.
  2. The tiny country of FYROM, which emerged after the break-down of Yugoslavia, has been trying to create national pride in its youth by telling them that they are descendants of Alexander the Great and by claiming Macedonia and its history as their own.
  3. Turkey wants to extend its jurisdiction into the Aegean by claiming small uninhabited islands gradually, while also supposedly eyeing up Thrace with its small Muslim minority. Of course the 400 year occupation by the Ottoman Empire doesn\'t help either.

Another important factor in spreading fear and uncertainty is the media. The crime rate in Greece is generally one of the lowest in Europe (if not the lowest), therefore everytime there is a serious crime, it is reported extensively in the news. When crimes are committed by immigrants, there is more emphasis placed on the news item,creating the impression that immigrants are responsible for the rise in crime the last few years. Whether or not that is true, I don\'t know, but I wouldn\'t be surprised considering the marginalization that most immigrants experience once they enter the country.

There is widespread belief that immigrants are taking our jobs by asking for lower pay and sending all of their earnings back to their mother countries, instead of keeping them in Greece where they can be taxed. In reality, immigrants only seem to be taking the jobs that Greeks don\'t want anymore and they can send their money back \"home,\" because most of them are working illegally and getting paid under the table by their Greek employers. So, whose fault is it?

Are Greeks racists?

Aside from the far-right consevative Greek, who proudly exhibits his racist feelings, the average Greek will say that he/she is not racist. Yet, the use of the following stereotypes soars:

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Κυριακή 14 Μαρτίου 2010

Oh No... Not Alkaios!


... is exactly what I said when I heard that this song was chosen to represent Greece in Eurovision this year:

First of all, let me just clarify that I cuckoo Eurovision fans who know what size shirt Saki wore to the finals last year. I don't think it's culturally important, as a competition, either, and I definitely think that the public TV station spends WAAAAYYY too much money on it.

But, I still watch it, because I find it amusing.

This year, I liked that ERT considered several artists who were (the majority) not big stars. I also liked that these artists were very different from each other. I can't say I loved the songs presented, but I did think that Alkaios' "Opa" was one of the worst.

It is a typical tsiftetelodaxtiridi Greek Eurovision song, with music that sounds like a million other songs that Alkaios has sung and with lyrics that are also super predictable and a big fat "Opa" to top everything off.

This song will not even get through the semi-finals. Not that winning is a big deal either. Despite that, I would like to see some originality in this singing competition.

As for the rest of the songs that were competing with "Opa"...

Polemao (Giorgos Karadimos) - It bored me so much I actually started nodding...

Illusion (Christos Hatzinasios) - This is the one I liked out of the bunch.

Game of Life (Second Skin) - This girl could not sing live. And what's up with "Let's play this game of life Ha ha ha" ?

H Kivotos tou Noe (Manos Pirovolakis) - Initially it's not bad, but the rapper and the girl's bad English accent bothered me. And then it gets confusing. Does it want to be a Greek song? An R&B song? A traditional Cretan song?

Kinezos (Melisses) - I thought it was kind of funky, but it's in Greek and no one will get the quirky lyrics that are supported by the music.

Touch Me Deep Inside (Emigre) - Wow, this song was just so typical of Eurovision, complete with the dancy music and retarded lyrics. Who says, "touch me deep inside"?

Τετάρτη 10 Μαρτίου 2010

Obessive Relationship: Greek Mom and Her Son


All moms love their kids. But Greek moms have a special way of spoiling them to show it, and when it comes to their sons... Forget about it! Greek women have always known that it's difficult for moms to let go of their little boys (even when they're past 30), but now there's research to back up this notion.

According to a study published today on in.gr, one in four Greek men are so attached to their mothers that they rarely realize how harmful this attachment can be to their relationships with women. In fact one in four Greek men consider their mother's opinion for every important decision they have to make, and many of them inform their mothers of every detail in their daily lives.

That doesn't sound that bad, until you actually start dating one of these men. OK, maybe not immediately after dating them, but definitely if you marry them. The mother-in-law is there to supervise you as her new daughter-in-law. She has to make sure that her son is eating well, that he's eating the food he likes the way his mommy cooks it, that the house is cleaned on a regular basis and so on.

And if it's not about the daily chores and housekeeping, they will interfere with your upbringing of your children - 24% of the women in this study found this a big problem.

Often times such "orders" are not expressed directly towards the daughter-in-law. They are subtly inserted in a harmless conversation, as the mother-in-law "hints" at the mistakes that her son's wife is making.

According to this study, 23% of couples involved, divorced because of the husband's mom. The percentage of break-ups due to the man's mother getting involved, reaches 80% for unmarried couples.

The worst part, is that most women who experience such behavior from their mother-in-laws, actually end up treating their daughter-in-laws the same way they were treated!

GREEK MAMAS: Please stop babying your boys! They cannot stay with you forever - that's what your husband is there for. Be a diplomat: treat your daughter-in-law with respect and you will have the couple's love and devotion.

GREEK MEN: Stop the kiss-and-tell with your mom! Allowing her to interfere from day one, doesn't show that you love her. It shows that you don't respect your wife and that you can't stand up to your mom. Grow up!

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